Last week I had the odd experience of being a fly on the wall. I attended my community’s monthly ‘Time of Togetherness’, but was on my phone, non-identified and unable to unmute! Instead of participating verbally, I was given the opportunity to relax, be open and listen to what others were saying. I could and did, participate audibly. I valued hearing a variety of perspectives on our rhythm. It is good to hear the how deep the cord is that gently, yet strongly draws us together. Our rhythm was one of the key elements that drew me into Contemplative Fire in 2008. I was silent on Sunday, so now I’ll use some words to describe my experience of having a rhythm of life.
When I first encountered Contemplative Fire in 2008, via a DVD where the founder Revd Philip Roderick described the sacramental community, the trefoil and the rhythm of life that bound them together, I was in search for others who would keep me accountable in my spiritual life. I was an active priest, inclined to working too hard, and in a non-contemplative community. I needed help both to sustain me and contain me. I had explored traditional monastic communities and not found a match. With Contemplative Fire I found like-souled people, on a path like my own, and I was given a rhythm of life to both instruct and guide me. Fifteen years later, both the community and the rhythm continue to shape my life.
Our rhythm is titled: Travelling Light – Dwelling Deep. It invites us to not be so wound up by the things of life, the activities of life and to draw instead from the awareness of big picture of life and harvest the inner resources of Spirit. The image of our rhythm is a trefoil, an ancient Celtic symbol that is both trinitarian and beyond. There are three leaves reflecting three guiding values with our community, prayer/study/action and all three leaves are grounded in the centre, named ‘The Wordless Space’, the Mystery at the heart of the universe, the Divine. Over the years Philip offered us different words for the three leaves: Stillwaters/The Learning Centre/Across the Threshold or A Contemplative Practice/A Creative Practice/A Compassionate Practice, each of them reflecting the core practices of prayer/study/action. With the adoption of this rhythm, our lives were to have a prayerful component that we could shape any way we liked; our lives were to have a learning/creating/teaching/mentoring component, again shaped as we were called and equipped; our lives were to be moving into deeper compassionate engagement with the world, seeking to be a change agent, an explorer, one willing to be different, always inclusive and loving. And each of these leaves, each prayerful movement, each creative venture, each compassionate engagement was to be grounded in, nourished and propelled by the Spirit of God, for each was coming from the Wordless Space, the Deep Mystery and Power of the Divine. The final added delight for me was that this rhythm is idiorhythmic, that means that each Companion’s rhythm will be distinctive to themselves and will change as they change. Here I was given structure that contained but didn’t control me. I heard this and said a resounding ‘Yes!’.
Enough words for this week! Next week I’ll put words to how my life has been shaped these last fifteen years through the rhythm embodied in the trefoil.
Do you have a guiding rhythm for your life?
Love and prayers
Anne
Mystic in Motion
Companion on the Way with Contemplative Fire
Companion on the Rivendell Way
Society Member of Shalem Institute for Contemplative Living